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  • I can talk tomorrow, but I don’t have to do it

    I can talk tomorrow, but I don’t have to do it

    Waiting had become a part of me. Whenever I disliked or disagreed with something, I told myself it was better to talk about it “tomorrow.” But when tomorrow arrived, every small detail became an excuse to postpone the conversation again. Suddenly, I became an expert at ignoring my feelings, diminishing my reasons, and omitting the…

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  • I do not want to ignore my feelings

    I do not want to ignore my feelings

    After an amazing weekend, I didn’t want to go back to work. I suppose most people feel that way—being an adult is a job in itself, and it’s exhausting. However, my reluctance wasn’t just “Monday blues”; it was because the atmosphere was a nightmare. I had been there for only a month and already felt…

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